Missing her… the words do not describe the depth of how it has been not having my mother here with me. I felt as though we were a team in the Kingdom of God and and on behalf of our family. We had a very special relationship (which I am sure each one of her children felt because she had that way of spoiling each one of us). We were best friends with supernatural kindred spirits even though she was my loving, caring, and always there for me, Mom!
Her wisdom, advice, perspective, humor, her prayer… oh, her prayer, and willingness to listen to me and so many others, was amazing! She was “home!” Wherever she was, was home! So when she left, the sense of displacement came.
Where do I live now? Where do I turn now? Who do I trust with concerns and prayers now? Who will love me, care for me, and support me like she did… with the mutuality in trust, sharing ourselves, in battling for Kingdom concerns and our family?
That was almost 8 years ago. Over time God has indeed been healing my broken heart, through prayer and choosing to listen to Him through His Word and by His Holy Spirit. The loss of her presence here came behind the very recent losses of my baby sister, younger brother, and BFF aunt… just within 5 months.
So the pain was greater and more devastating then natural words can ever describe. The pain was deep! And, because of our kindred spirits, as she lie on her deathbed, my heart cried for her pain in recently losing her baby daughter, her son (the 2nd son to die), her baby sister and a dear friend just months earlier, along with the physical pain of cancer that was declining her body, and the helplessness that she must have been feeling because her faith filled prayers were not healing herself or giving her assurance of staying here to fulfill the dreams and visions in her own heart as well as those of her children, grandchildren, spiritual children, nieces and nephews and siblings still living!
Yes, He has indeed been healing my heart and blessing me! So at year 8 of my Mom, my friend, my sister in Christ not being here , I can proclaim that I am freer, full of more joy in the Lord, more willing to follow God’s reason for me still being here on this earth (regardless of how I feel, what I think, or whether I know or understand what the future holds… the near future or months and years to come)!
My relationship with God and depth of revelation in The Word (Jesus Christ is the Word, John 1) has increased and continues to be fresh because of the healing that only Jesus Christ, The Healer, has brought me / bought for me, and daily continues to bring! And, to God be the glory!
So today, February 12th 2022, I can declare to you that the broken heart that I have endured is at a more faith filled, hopeful, and realistic place than ever and I am moving forward (theme of Mom’s homegoing celebration) by the continual filling and leading of the Holy Spirit! I hope that this blog in some way has encouraged you in your life and/or regarding your own sadness and grief!
Have a HAPPY VALENTINES DAY